
Therapy for Relationship Anxiety and Emotional Challenges
If you find yourself overwhelmed by relationship anxiety, constantly worrying about being judged, fearing rejection, or struggling to trust others, it can create emotional strain and make it difficult to feel secure in your relationships and connected to others. I work with individuals aged 18+ in the UK, facing a wide range of common mental health challenges, including generalised anxiety, social anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief, and other stress-related issues. These challenges can leave you feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck in negative patterns. Together, we will explore the root causes of these struggles and work on strategies to help you feel more confident and at ease in your relationships and daily life.
Many people also struggle with issues like setting healthy boundaries or dealing with the inner critic that constantly undermines their confidence. These challenges can impact your relationships, self-worth, and emotional wellbeing. Learning how to manage these difficulties can help you develop healthier, more authentic connections with yourself and others.
I am a firm believer that “the relationship is the therapy”, which is part of the way I work which enables me to establish and maintain successful and effective working alliances. As part of the therapeutic process, I consider a good working relationship vital in our work together, for a successful outcome to be achieved. It is my aim to provide a safe space where I can listen to you in a non- judgemental, trusting and understanding environment. I work collaboratively with individuals, rather than acting as an expert as I believe each person knows themselves best.

Supporting You Through Emotional Challenges and Everyday Struggles
I am a therapist based in Colliers Wood, South West London, offering support to individuals who are navigating emotional challenges, relationship struggles, and a range of common mental health difficulties. Having gone through my own personal journey of emotional growth, I understand how daunting it can be to take the first step towards therapy. Reaching out when you are feeling vulnerable takes courage, and I aim to provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where you can explore what is going on for you.
I offer a client-led space, which means we go at your pace and focus on what feels most important to you. There is no fixed path or pressure to be a certain way. My role is to walk alongside you, helping you make sense of difficult thoughts and feelings, and supporting you to develop healthier ways of thinking, feeling, and relating to yourself and others. If you often feel unsure of yourself or find it difficult to connect with others, we can begin by exploring the relationship you have with yourself. How you see, treat, and speak to yourself plays a big part in how you experience those around you. It can shape how safe you feel with others, how much you trust, and how you respond in close relationships. By understanding these patterns, you can begin to build a more secure and compassionate connection with yourself. From there, it often becomes easier to feel more confident, grounded, and open in your relationships with others, not by changing who you are, but by reconnecting with yourself in a way that feels steady and true.
I offer face-to-face counselling sessions in a calm and private garden office located at my home in South West London. The office is accessed via a separate entrance through the side gate, ensuring discretion and privacy. There are no pets on the premises, apart from a few peaceful goldfish in the outdoor pond.
The space includes toilet facilities and has been set up with health and safety in mind to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment.
🚗 Free driveway parking is available for clients.
🚶♀️ Easily accessible by public transport:
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15-minute walk Colliers Wood Underground Station


Relationship anxiety can manifest as fear of abandonment, fear of rejection, or constant overthinking about your relationship. It can also affect self-esteem and lead to insecurity. It’s important to understand that these feelings are common, and therapy can help address the root causes. Constant worry, self-doubt, and the fear of rejection can leave you feeling disconnected from the people around you. If you find yourself asking, “Do they care about me?” or “Am I enough?” you’re not alone, these are common signs that anxiety is affecting your peace of mind and your connections. Anxiety in relationships can make it hard to feel secure, leading to overthinking, misunderstandings, and unnecessary tension. The constant fear of “messing up” or not meeting expectations can prevent you from fully engaging with others.

If your relationships are feeling distant or difficult, it’s normal to feel frustrated or unsure of how to make things better. Whether it’s communication problems, misunderstandings, or emotional disconnect, therapy can offer a space to talk things through without judgment. In our sessions, we’ll look at what’s causing the tension and explore how past experiences or patterns might be affecting your relationships. We’ll take things slowly, looking at the emotional needs of both sides, so you can start to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and improve your connection with others.

In our counselling work, I welcome the exploration of how your cultural background and attachment style may be influencing your emotional responses and relationships. Together, we’ll examine how cultural expectations and past experiences shape your feelings and behaviours.
By exploring what might be affecting your relationships, we’ll identify patterns linked to cultural influences or attachment dynamics. This deeper understanding will support you in recognising how these factors impact your emotional well-being, helping you navigate them more effectively and build healthier, more fulfilling connections with others.

Your mind and body are closely linked. What happens in your mind, your thoughts, feelings, and stress can directly affect your body. Similarly, the way your body feels can impact your mood and how you think. When you feel stressed or anxious, your body reacts. You might feel tension in your muscles, headaches, or tightness in your chest. These physical symptoms are your body’s way of responding to what’s happening in your mind. At the same time, physical problems or discomfort can also influence how you feel emotionally. This is why taking care of your body can help improve your mental health and vice versa. Your brain and body are constantly sending messages to each other. The more stressed your mind feels, the more your body reacts to that stress.

Not all trauma comes from big, dramatic events like accidents or major losses. Some trauma comes from smaller, everyday experiences that slowly build up over time. These are often called “small t” traumas. They can be things like: Being ignored, constant criticism, feeling dismissed or not listened to, being left out, feeling unwanted or not good enough. On their own, these moments might not seem like a big deal. But when they happen again and again, they can leave emotional wounds that affect how you see yourself and how you relate to others.
For example:
If someone is often criticised, they may start to feel anxious, not good enough, or unsure of themselves, even if no one meant to hurt them. These experiences can quietly shape your confidence, your relationships, and your mental health. Just because they seem “small” doesn’t mean they don’t matter.
